A young person holding a smartphone whose screen lights up their hands in a dimly lit roomAuthorities are urging parents to monitor children's phones and online accounts.

The missing Semmes girl found safe this week was located in Detroit, Michigan, late Wednesday night, two days after she slipped out of her home without permission, the Mobile County Sheriff’s Office said.

Miley Sanders, 12, a seventh grader, had been reported missing Tuesday. Sheriff Paul Burch said investigators believe she was found shortly after she stepped off a bus in Detroit — and before she could meet the person he says she had been talking to online.

Burch is now using the case as a warning to parents across Mobile County, saying it shows how quickly a child can be put at risk through unmonitored phones and online communication. The sheriff said no names of potential suspects have been released, and no charges have been announced. Anyone eventually accused in the case would be presumed innocent unless and until proven guilty in court.

How the Search Began

Miley’s grandmother and legal guardian, Paula Sanders, said her granddaughter left the home Tuesday after saying she planned to spend the night with a friend. Sanders said she had not given permission, and that Miley packed two backpacks before leaving.

Sanders said she later learned that Miley took an Uber to a bus station.

The Sheriff’s Office publicized the search earlier in the week, describing Miley as last seen in the area of Hickory Lane North in Semmes and saying investigators believed she may be in danger — language agencies reserve for missing-juvenile cases in which there is reason to think a child is not simply late coming home.

For the family, the two days in between were the worst part.

“The whole time, some of the worst-case scenarios have gone through my head, and I’ve been so upset,” Sanders said.

Authorities located Miley after she got off the bus in Detroit. Burch said investigators believe she was found before there could be any contact with the man she had traveled there to meet.

What the Sheriff Says About the Online Contact

According to Burch, Miley had been communicating with a 34-year-old man in Texas who is a suspect in a child pornography case. The sheriff said that man allegedly provided Miley with a burner phone and made plans for her to travel to Texas.

But Burch said Miley was also communicating with a 23-year-old man in Detroit, and that she went there instead.

Neither man has been publicly identified, and the Sheriff’s Office has not announced charges against either of them in connection with this case. What the sheriff described is an allegation at this stage, and the men are entitled to the presumption of innocence.

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Burch did not detail how or where the online conversations took place, and investigators have not released the contents of them. Beyond what the sheriff has said publicly, authorities have not described what happened during the roughly two days Miley was away from home, and South Alabama News is not going to speculate about it. She is a minor, and she was found safe.

Speaking about the need for parents to monitor social media use, the sheriff put it plainly.

“This was a very, very alarming case, and I hope that it will get the attention of parents,” Burch said.

‘She Had Four Phones, and an iPad’

One of the details that most alarmed the family was how many devices were in the house — and how easily another one arrived.

Sanders said two new phones were delivered to her home on Saturday. Miley, she said, already had several devices of her own.

“She had four phones, and an iPad,” Sanders said. “I told her there’s no reason that a 12-year-old needs four phones.”

The detail matters because of how parental controls actually work in practice. Most monitoring tools — screen-time limits, content filters, contact approvals, location sharing — are configured device by device and account by account. A child with one supervised phone and one unsupervised one effectively has no supervision at all, because every restriction on the first device can be routed around on the second.

A “burner phone” of the kind Burch described is the extreme version of that problem: an inexpensive prepaid handset, bought without a contract and often without any identity check, that does not appear on a family plan, does not show up on a household bill, and is not tied to any parent-controlled account. It is invisible to nearly every safeguard a parent might have set up.

Sanders said she does not know how Miley came into contact with the men. She suspects it may have happened through an online game.

“I don’t know unless it was one of those games she plays, like Roblox,” Sanders said. “She likes to play that game, and I’ve done told her I don’t want her playing it.”

The Sheriff’s Message to Parents

Burch was direct in urging parents to take a more active role in monitoring their children’s phones and online activity, and unusually blunt about the pushback parents can expect.

“As parents, you pay for those devices, you pay for the service,” Burch said. “Be a parent and monitor those services, monitor the phones. And if your child gives you beef about it, take the phone.”

Sanders, who described herself as someone who had been watching her granddaughter’s devices, hopes other families recognize that the risk exists even when parents believe they are paying attention.

“Just gotta watch them, stay on them,” Sanders said.

Why Investigators Treat a Packed Bag Differently

One detail from the earliest hours of the search shaped how it was handled: Miley left with two backpacks.

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Law enforcement agencies generally distinguish between a child who disappears suddenly and one who leaves with belongings deliberately gathered. A packed bag suggests a departure that was planned rather than impulsive, and a planned departure raises the possibility that the child had a destination in mind or that someone else was involved in arranging it. That is a different investigative problem than a child who wandered off, and it changes what detectives ask and who they contact first.

In this case, the sheriff’s account describes exactly that pattern: a stated plan to stay with a friend, packed bags, a ride-share to a bus station, and a bus trip to a city roughly 1,000 miles away. Each of those steps required arranging in advance.

Where the Investigation Stands

Burch said his office is working with the FBI and with agencies in Texas and Michigan to determine whether charges will be filed. Cases that cross state lines and involve alleged online contact with a minor commonly draw federal involvement, because federal law reaches conduct that moves between states and across the internet in ways a single county agency cannot pursue on its own.

The sheriff has not released the names of either man described in the case. Sanders said she is working with authorities on arrangements to bring Miley back to Alabama.

No charges have been announced, and no one has been convicted of anything in connection with this case. Any allegations described by the sheriff are accusations at this point, and any person charged would be presumed innocent unless and until proven guilty in a court of law.

General Guidance for Families on Online Safety

The following is general advice, not guidance issued by any agency involved in this case. Child safety organizations, school systems and law enforcement agencies broadly encourage families to take a few practical steps.

  • Inventory the devices. Know how many internet-capable devices a child actually has — phones, tablets, laptops, gaming consoles, smart watches and handheld game systems all count. A device that no adult knows about cannot be supervised.
  • Turn on the built-in controls. Both major mobile platforms include family-management tools that let a parent approve app downloads, set age limits on content, restrict in-app purchases and see how a device is being used. Home internet routers and gaming platforms typically offer their own parallel settings.
  • Review contacts and friend lists periodically. Not as a one-time setup, but as a recurring habit. Games and chat apps let strangers reach children through friend requests, party chats, private servers and direct messages, and those lists change constantly.
  • Pay attention to chat features inside games. Many parents think of a game as a game. In practice, the voice and text chat attached to it functions as a messaging platform, often with weaker safeguards than a standalone social app.
  • Watch for gifts and unexplained packages. New devices, prepaid phones, gift cards or game currency arriving without explanation are worth asking about directly.
  • Talk about it early and without ultimatums. Children who fear losing all access are less likely to tell an adult when something online has gone wrong. Making it clear that reporting a problem will not automatically cost them everything is one of the more effective protections available.
  • Treat requests for secrecy as a warning sign. An adult online who asks a child to keep a conversation private, move to a different app, or accept a device the family does not know about is behaving in a way worth reporting.
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Where to Report a Concern

Families who believe a child is in immediate danger should call 911. During the search for Miley, the Mobile County Sheriff’s Office publicized 251-574-8633 as the number for information about the case.

The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children is a national clearinghouse that works with law enforcement on missing-child cases and on reports of online child exploitation. It operates a 24-hour hotline at 1-800-843-5678 and takes reports of suspected online exploitation through its CyberTipline at CyberTipline.org.

Miley was found safe, which is the outcome every one of these searches is working toward and not the one every search reaches. The Sheriff’s Office has not said when it expects a decision on charges, and Burch has indicated that determination rests with investigators in three jurisdictions working together. South Alabama News will report developments as authorities release them.